Mr. Flibble is Very Cross

On Party Principle and Meghan McCain

2009-04-01T19:23:00.019-04:00

Welcome Manly Rash Readers and CR Mommies!!

In her most recent column for The Daily Beast (which I refuse to dignify with a link- Google it and you’ll find it) Meghan McCain very approvingly “profiles” House Republican Aaron Schock. I’m inclined to believe that her newfound support for Representative Schock is mostly due to the fact that he’s incredibly good looking; hence her donning the article with the title “The GOP’s House Hottie". I have no issue with Rep. Schock, per se. According to his bio on Wikipedia, he seems to be a pretty solid Conservative, although there is admittedly little info in the piece.

However, reading past Ms McCain's lust-fest shows us the other reason why she is so attracted to Rep. Schock, which links into her recent criticisms of Rush Limbaugh and Ann Coulter. She seems to latch onto statements such as "We have to recognize Republican candidates in the Northeast are going to be different than candidates in the Midwest, who are going to look different than candidates on the West Coast" and tie it into the ideology she’s peddling; the idea that the only way we can appeal to "independents" is by overlooking large gaps in policy position to win elections.

This is probably the biggest problem facing Conservative Republicans today: a minority constituency within the party demanding acceptance of any (leftist) belief into the party platform and then calling it a “big tent”. There are several problems with this approach that’s advocated by Ms. McCain, who is herself only a recent Republican- she voted for Kerry and Gore and only registered R in September- and the so-called media elites (Frum, Brooks, Noonan, Parker, et al) who so frequently advocate this same position.

First of all, those proselytizing for the mushy-middle say that we need to expand the tent, reach out to certain constituencies, all of which sound good on the surface. The problem is that they expect us to do so by pushing out those who are the consistent voting base of the party: the social conservatives. They've formed a circular firing squad and taken aim at anyone who publicly professes belief in God, upholding traditional marriage, and/or overturning the judicial monstrosity that is Roe vs Wade.

I’m not exactly sure how turning off the majority of the base of Republican voters by embracing federally approved homosexual marriage and a national pro-abortion platform is going to win ANY election so you will have to forgive me for being skeptical of this approach. The bottom line here is that giving social-cons the proverbial finger on these issues in order to try and appeal to the middle is a losing strategy. No matter how many squishes we get on our side with this appeal, we still lose without the base. Period.

Secondly, and most importantly, the ideas being peddled by Ms. McCain, et al, are contrary to the very reason for having a political party separate from the DNC in the first place. Yes, I am aware that Republicans from different areas are not all going to look the same, but they should sound essentially the same because their guiding principles should be the same.

The point of being a Republican generally, and a Conservative specifically is that we oppose a large and overreaching federal government. We support the rights of states and localities to decide the majority of the issues for themselves, as is their constitutional right via the Tenth Amendment, and to legislate their decisions within their communities accordingly. If your positions on the national level do not hold to those basic premises you have no business calling yourself a Republican, much less a Conservative. If you believe that it is OK for the government to tell us what we can and can’t do on just about every level then you may as well go and change your registration to a (D) because you’re not a Republican, regardless of how much you may protest otherwise.

Now, that’s not saying that people within the Republican Party are not allowed to have their own opinions on each subject. They most certainly are and they are free to try and influence policy-making at their local level. But as soon as you step it up to the national level, you are no longer advocating for our founding principles and are treading on lefty territory.

Let’s use the Democrat party as a prime example of how this whole political-party-thing is supposed to work. There are people advocating for all sorts of issues on the left. From abortion, to national health care, to marriage, to CO2 emissions, to entitlements, they all have on thing in common: THEY WANT THE FEDERAL GOVERNMENT TO DO IT. They are Statists and believe that if there’s an issue on the table the feds have to be involved. And of course, they want them to legislate that everyone must behave and believe as they do. The DNC embraces a Statist approach to solving problems, which is why all of these voting groups line up to pull the lever for them at the polls.

The thing about Conservatism (and supposedly Republicanism) is that it’s based on the principles of our founding. Do yourself a favor and read the Constitution, the Declaration of Independence, and The Federalist Papers for starters. If you’ve already read them, maybe it’s time to refresh your memory. The Pilgrims, and everyone following them, came to this land to escape the clutches of tyranny perpetrated by governing entities that were so large and so far removed from themselves that they could not possibly have their needs met. The Founders revolted from the same tyranny and formed a new nation based on the idea that individuals should be able to decide for themselves how they want to live. The reason for our Constitution being one of “negative rights”, as our new President likes to put it, for the federal authorities is to specifically limit the amount of power the federal government could amass and prevent it from becoming an carbon copy of what they were trying to escape in the first place.

Think about it this way: who knows better what is needed in your city, the people in Washington, D.C. or the people who actually live there? The answer is obviously the latter. The Founders knew this and it is why they gave us, the people, the freedom and the power to do almost anything we wanted, so long as we didn’t start trying to impose it on the people in the next town or state over. Each state, and even each community within each state, was designed to be able to experiment and govern themselves how they wanted to be governed, to figure out how to meet their own needs in the way that was best for them without the interference of a giant overseer.

For example, say we here in my town in sunny Central Florida decide we want to publicly educate our children. It’s then up to us to figure out how to fund it, organize a structure, arrange for facilities, hire teachers, decide on curriculum, etc. WE control it. And it’s best that way because only WE, the parents, know our children and their needs. When we abdicate that right along with our individual responsibility to the federal government, we inevitably get poor results. The feds cannot possibly know what my child and your child need. Our children are not people to the people in Congress, they are numbers. Statistics. The ONLY way to regulate anything on the federal level is by making sweeping generalizations. Check these 10 boxes and viola! You have an educated child.

Of course, we all know it doesn’t work that way. Having the education of our children mandated and regulated by the goofballs in D.C. can only produce mediocrity, at best. And the same goes for anything that requires any kind of specialization or personalization. Health care is one that immediately comes to mind.

Again, this is why the Founders put so much power into OUR hands. Conservatives know this instinctively, and while we may not always agree on specific policies, we should be banding together on the basic principle that I can do it my way in my town and you can do it yours in your town and we don’t need a King (or 500+ kings) on Capitol Hill to tell us how to best meet our own needs.

So, here’s the deal: there is a simple test as to whether or not you should be a Republican. Ask yourself, on any issue that is not specifically addressed in the Constitution, do you think the feds should handle it or should it be left to the people to decide for themselves at the local level? If your answer is the former, you’re a Democrat. If it’s the latter, you’re a Republican. And if you’ve only figured out you have an affinity with Conservatives in September of last year, please refrain from lecturing the rest of us, many who have been advocating and articulating these principles for decades, on what we need to do to win elections.

Shelby Steele on why the GOP can't win minorities

2009-03-16T12:23:00.002-04:00

At the Wall Street Journal.

Steele expertly articulates what I have long believed: minorities are anti-GOP because we're not promising them anything special. That's not a bad thing. Yes, we want minorities in the tent with us, but we want them because they agree with our principles, not because we've promised them some funding here or special access there.

Government action based upon one's racial status is inherently racist. If we want to live in a world where race is no longer an issue then we have to stop making it one. No, we don't bury our heads in the sand and pretend that racism and discrimination doesn't happen; obviously it still does, albeit on a much lesser scale than in times past. As the old cliche goes, two wrongs don't make a right. We can't make up for actions and attitudes against one set of minorities from the past by instituting those same actions and attitudes but in the wronged minorities' favor.

As Steele says, standing on principle is the ultimate way to show minorities not racial dignity but "human dignity". And we have to get a lot better at articulating those ideas or we will forever lose minority communities to those who perpetually promise to "right" the wrongs of the past with fascist government intervention.

Very Frightening Stuff

2009-03-16T11:55:00.003-04:00

This was posted at Manly's Republic. Basically a bill has been introduced into the House that, if it passes, will require citizens to spend 3 years in some type of "community service" and will create the "civil defense force" that Obama talked about in his campaign last year.

No, no, no. No one's gonna do that. That's just crazy talk!

Well, read it and weep people: HR 1388: The GIVE Act

Also courtesy of my frequenting of Manly's site, Thomas Sowell gives quite the response to the idea of mandatory community service.

Hang on a sec....

2009-03-15T14:53:00.001-04:00

Between closing in on 30 and my bouts with Momnesia I'll admit that my memory may be going; but I'm pretty sure I remember McCain being slammed by Obama and the Democrats for suggesting the same exact thing last summer:

Let's tax our HMO's!

Two excellent articles

2009-03-15T14:01:00.002-04:00

The first is the Keynote Address to the 2009 ICCC, as delivered by Lord Christoper Monckton, who was an advisor to Margaret Thatcher and is currently the Chief Policy Advisor to the Science and Public Policy Institute.

Read it and weep.

The second article is a wonderful bit of satire/snark by Kyle Smith, found in the NY Post.

With Republican Friends Like These...

Read and enjoy!

Nice

2009-03-10T11:18:00.003-04:00

Michael Ramirez is a gem! (h/t to: Manly Rash)

Gardening fun!

2009-03-10T11:06:00.002-04:00

The Hillbilly Housewife is talking about gardening on her blog this week. I'm really interested in starting a vegetable garden and I even have a nice spot picked out on the north side of my house. Growing my own food would definitely start cutting down on some produce costs at the grocery store. I'm wary to start though because we're getting ready to start trying for baby #2 and the books and doctors now warn against gardening for fear of getting toxoplasmosis.

I have done some preliminary research on the subject and found some helpful sites:

The Garden Helper

The Helpful Gardener

Home-Vegetable Garden

Anyway, I'm thinking that when I do start my garden I will do a raised bed. That way there's no digging and treating the ground for ph and such. Info on raised bed gardening here.

In these times, it may be a good idea for anyone who is able to start planting their own food. As I said above, it's a money saver and having your own fresh fruits and veggies right outside your door should encourage you to start eating healthier.

Healthier Eating + Money Saved = WIN!!!

This is pure awesome

2009-03-10T01:16:00.000-04:00

The most powerful oven ever

I laughed.

Save yourself some pain; Don't watch The Watchmen

2009-03-10T01:15:00.000-04:00

At hubby's insistence, we went to see The Watchmen last night. I will be honest and tell you that hubby gave me a nutshell synopsis of the graphic novel a few weeks ago and I wasn't impressed at the time with the themes and ideas within his description. However, I went into the movie optimistic that my initial impression of the story-arc was due to some misunderstanding, as I didn't read the novel myself.

Alas, my optimism was for naught.

While the film was visually stunning, my problems with it are as follows:

1. Technical: The music choices were incredibly jarring and not fitting with the tone of the scenes in which they were used. According to hubby, the songs were chosen because they were directly quoted at the end of certain issues; however the manner in which they were used was just inappropriate. In particular, the songs during the funeral as well as the sex-scene both had a somewhat comical sound to them and made what should have been sober and serious scenes, respectively, feel incredibly silly instead. Seriously, people in the theater were giggling.

I also have to note that the story is set in an alternate 1985, but aside from the narrative actually stating the date once near the beginning of the film, as well as a few bad hairstyles and a token hoopty or two parked on the street, there's not much to indicate that we're in 1985. That's important because the ideas expressed in the novel were very relevant to that time. It just didn't feel like we were in 1985, and as a result the ideas and ideologies being expressed felt incredibly dated and stale.

Most of the acting was fine with two noted exceptions. The female lead (Silk Spectre II) was terrible. She made me think of Anna Farris from the Scary Movie franchise. Frankly, they probably would have gotten a better performance from Anna Farris. What's worse, some of the most poignant lines in the entire film were given to her to deliver, which was certainly a shame. Matthew Goode, who plays Ozymandias had a weird Germanic accent that came and went. Considering that the climax and resolution of the murder mystery/conspiracy plot-line revolves around him, we see very little of him and get almost no background on his character which would lead us to understand his internal motivations.

2. Story: In my husband's description of the graphic novel, as well as in subsequent conversations we've had about the film, it is apparent that the main goal of the novel was to explore two interlaced themes. The first being an intense psychological study of these fictional super-heroes; who are they and what motivates them to do what they do. The second theme is the exploration of the cultural obsession with hero-worship and the potential results of society placing so much faith and hope on a few individuals who are human beings, just like the rest of us; this theme is directly dependent on the first.

The "main story" (a murder mystery that turns out to be a conspiracy to commit a horrible act) is very thin and is more or less a plot device used to help us explore the first two themes; in other words the journey isn't what's important, it's the discoveries we make along the way (ie, the two themes I've identified) that are the meat and the depth of the novel.

The problem with the movie is that the focus is directly on the main story and the deeper themes are barely grazed in a few scattered flashbacks throughout. Because of my husband's admiration for the graphic novel and his insistence on the depth of the characters, I went into the film expecting substance and instead got a comic book movie that tried to do too much.

Unlike the new and improved "gritty" comic book movies such as Dark Knight, there aren't just one or two main characters to develop but 6-7. It's impossible to do more than scratch the surface of the characters and maintain a good pace as well as keep the film under 3 hours.

It also seems that the director, Zack Snyder was so focused on keeping the camera angles, dialog, etc., so close to the novel that he forgot to maintain the feel of it. For example: According to hubby, each issue ends with a panel showing the Doomsday Clock getting closer to midnight as well as intermittent scenes stressing the mounting tensions between the US and the USSR; obviously a way to show the growing fears over the nuclear war that may be on the horizon. There is little to no emphasis placed on getting that feeling right. In fact, when Laurie and Dr. Manhattan have their conversation on Mars, in which the latter changes his mind at the drop of a hat about "saving the world", I was almost totally lost as to what they were even talking about.

Nuclear annihilation? Huh??? We just spent the last hour watching Silk Spectre II and Nite Owl II bat their eyes at each other and suddenly we're talking about nukes??

Unfortunately, this was not an isolated incident.

So to make a long story short, despite the pretty scenery and nifty special effects the movie itself is largely devoid of the interesting narrative and character studies that my husband insists makes the graphic novel so appealing.

Cheapskate Resources: Depression-Era Cooking and more!

2009-03-09T12:09:00.002-04:00

Right now the Hillbilly Housewife is running a series on Depression-Era cooking on her blog. Check it out for money saving tips.

Just found this site called FrugalFun.com. Has a lot of good tips on making your own cleansers at home.

Another new site with lots of useful hints is AllThingsFrugal.com.

Also try out KraftFoods.com. They have an entire section called "Budget Wise" with money saving recipes and tips. Kraft always has great recipes and their budget recipes are no different. They even have a "Healthy Loving" subheading for those who are looking to eat lighter on a budget.

A bit of a gripe

2009-03-09T11:40:00.006-04:00

As anyone reading my political commentary can probably tell, I'm a conservative. Every day, after I get my son up, dressed and fed, read my Bible, and the little man and I do the day's lesson, I manage to find a bit of spare time to engage in one of my 3 hobbies: reading, crochet and politics. I don't have a ton of time to hang out on the internet and I don't tend to post a lot, but I do have a few sites I visit regularly because I enjoy their "quick hits" links for the news and they usually have excellent commentary.

Over the past week or so, with the Rush non-controversy rolling, one of my favorite blogs has gone all Hot Air on me and it's got me pretty peeved.

I can deal with differing opinions on a conservative blog. We're all human beings and we're not always gonna see eye-to-eye on everything. What I have a problem with is when the moderators on a site post what they consider "red meat" over and over and over in order to get traffic to their website and then proceed to chide the commentors for their passionate opinions on the subjects that they themselves post about. It's hypocritical and annoying. If you don't like Sarah Palin, don't post about her. If you are an atheist and don't care to see people of faith get riled up about something, don't post a faith-bashing thread. And if you think everyone should just move on from the Rush non-controversy then for the love of God, STOP POSTING ABOUT IT!!!

Hot Air is notorious about doing this exact thing (which is why I call this type of behavior "going all Hot Air") and it's so annoying that I've gone from checking over there daily to a brief look once every week or two.

So, yesterday I go to my favorite blog after being offline for most of the weekend. The very first post I see is one from the site owner calling everyone out for being so angry over the Rush thing. Of course, what's sparked the conflict on this site is that the owner and at least one of the mods refuses to acknowledge that the issue isn't just a matter of defending Rush's statement but of standing up for conservative principles and values on the whole; something which the GOP has failed miserably at in the past 8 years. That issue aside, I then look at the preceding posts for the day. The 3 post immediately before the one I've just described are all about the Rush thing, or some "cocktail party elitist" slamming Rush, or some website or another agreeing with the site owner's own view on the subject.

For an entire week every post about this issue has gotten a pretty significant backlash so if the site owner and mods had an issue with it- they claim to just want the whole thing to go away- you'd think they'd move on to something else. Alas no. We get 3-4 posts on this topic every day then a nasty diatribe about how unreasonable everyone's being. It's just too much.

As I stated earlier, I don't have a ton of time to hang out on the net. I get most of my news and commentary from a few select sites. So to see my favorite site engaging in what I can only imagine as traffic-whoring, and of the worst kind, it gets my hackles up a bit.

Anyway, I think I'm going to start frequenting Manly's Republic more often in place of my current favorite. Manly seems to have a good head on his shoulders and so far I haven't seen him traffic-whoring, so hopefully I'll find a new lurking home over there.

End rant.

Jay Nordlinger: Rock on!

2009-03-05T14:55:00.006-05:00

Laying down the law at the NRO.

Thank you, Mr. Nordlinger, for putting things into perspective. Here's a taste:

There are many things wrong with the Republican party today, and Rush Limbaugh, in my opinion, is not one of them. Donald Rumsfeld (another pet bogey) used to say, “America is not what’s wrong with the world.” That is true. And Rush Limbaugh is not what is wrong with the Republican party.

Frankly, Secretary Powell is more like what’s wrong: If he can’t discern the superiority of John McCain to Barack Obama, where the presidency is concerned, who needs him?

And there's this:

Rush Limbaugh is a Reagan conservative who thinks that what a united Democratic Washington is now doing is wrong and alarming. I agree. And conservatives would be a lot better off if they stopped spitting at Rush and stood up strong against Obamism.

I mean, here is a man who is putting Charles Freeman and Samantha Power and Dawn Johnsen in power. And we conservatives have our knickers in a twist about Rush?

YES!!!!!!!

An excellent articulation

2009-03-05T10:19:00.009-05:00

Check out absentee's blog over at Redstate. It's excellent and proves that we Mongoloid Conservatives can be just as "intellectual" as our elites. Here's an excerpt to whet your palate:

It is on that basis that conservatives look at the failed War on Poverty and expect to be able do something better. We will consider, unlike liberals, ideas which do not start and end in the Treasury. We dare look outside the trappings of Great Society and New Deal. We believe in our time-honored institutions and traditions. In churches and charity and people. Not merely because we believe that often they can work better, but because they enhance liberty rather than limit it. The simplest of minds can understand that given is better than taken, and it is a sign of how pervasive the left’s dogma is ingrained in society that such a statement is neither heard nor would it be considered, despite that those who we oppose perversely insist they pursue “fairness.”

The real war on poverty ought to be against a poverty of thinking. It ought to be against surrendering to the absolutes on the left. We can no longer allow their witch-hunt methodology to quiet us into retreat or send us quivering to the New York Times for scraps of approval. We must do as Rush has done. We must point people to the truth with a loud voice and refuse to cower. The future of this nation, of our children and grandchildren, will be decided by how well we can accomplish our goal. We must, at long last, fight the fixing of liberal ideologies as inviolable truths of nature into the hearts and minds of Americans with our every breath.

I love reading and hearing the tenets of conservatism articulated so eloquently. Especially in the post-election war-like atmosphere generated by the newspaper-and-magazine-writer moderates.

It seems that the self-appointed "elites" and "intellectuals" who claim to be on the right side of the political fence can't understand why conservatives are so against big government intervention. They appear to be laboring under the impression that we are all Rush-ed up zombies who only rally behind a mantra like "We think taxes is baaaad, 'mkay." The likes of Frum, Brooks, Dreher, Parker, Noonan, et al, believe we aren't capable of thinking for ourselves and we need them to moderate our tone and set the agenda for us because they, the thinking class, know better.

Man, does that sound familiar. Wait a sec! That's right. That's the same sorry tune we get from the left ad infinitum. As the saying goes, with friends like these....

This attitude may be why you're getting so much "hate mail", Ms. Parker. It may be why most of us want you thrown out of the tent, Mr. Buckley. It could possibly explain why you've received so much disdain from readers and bloggers, Messrs. Dreher, Frum and Brooks. We get enough of this garbage from the left. The LAST thing we need is these and their ilk under the tent.

A good piece of advice: stop with the circular firing squad. Stop belittling the common conservative by labeling our beliefs as "oogity boogity" and our people as "mongoloids". No matter how you try to spin it after the fact, we still understand that your intent was to insult and slander those with whom you claim to have some political affinity.

So, for pete's sake, either stop it or get ye yonder to the liberal's tent; which is where we suspect you belong anyway.

Vinegar + Sponge = Miracles

2009-02-26T15:56:00.010-05:00

For your cleaning consideration, I present: White Vinegar. Yes, it stinks. Yes, it really stinks. However, anything I can buy at Wal*Mart in a 2-quart jug for a dollar is a definite win.

Vinegar is also environmentally friendly, which I don't particularly care about; however since I have a small child, the less in the way of harsh chemicals I'm introducing into my home, the happier I am. I've never heard of small children dying after drinking from the vinegar jar. Gagging, maybe, but not dying.

There is an entire page devoted to cleaning tips using white vinegar- VinegarTips.com- so it must have something going for it. My personal favorite uses are for cutting grease on my cook top and for getting gunk out of corners and creases and in between tile.

I will be honest and tell you that I'm not particularly excited about my home smelling like a salad bowl. But when you consider that the smell dissipates within a few hours, leaving behind a clean, mold and germ-free home- that bottle of Lysol or Windex doesn't exactly leave a very pleasant smell either and the fumes can be poisonous- I think you'll find it's well worth using.

Case in point: I am the proud owner of beautiful Pembroke Welsh Corgi that I love very much. Unfortunately, my beautiful dog loves to rub himself up against my light-colored walls on a daily basis. I'm sure this is considered normal doggie behavior and is just him self-grooming or some such thing. What I see is him leaving his dog-funk all over my wall.

Dog-Funk

I clean this bit of wall about once a week. So the last time it was wiped down was last Thursday, right after I bathed the dog. Said dog has managed to inundate it with that much funk in a week. Here is my wall after wiping it down with white vinegar and a sponge.

No Dog Funk

It's a miracle!

And it costs 12.5 cents per cup (if you get the half-gallon jug at Wal*Mart for $1). A bottle of Lysol runs a bit over $3 for 40 fluid ounces. 128 fluid ounces is a gallon, so you would have to buy 3.2 bottles of Lysol to get a gallon of cleaner. That's around $9 for a gallon of Lysol, which averages out to a bit over 56 cents over cup.

If you use straight vinegar to clean instead of pre-bottled cleaners, you save on average about 43.5 cents per cup. If you dilute the vinegar- which I recommend doing most of the time- the cost per cup of vinegar is even less. That can add up very quickly, especially if you clean a lot. I'm a stay-at-home mom and housewife, so I clean every day. Needless to say I use a lot of vinegar!

In review: use vinegar to clean everything from mold to grease to dog funk, to shining your sink and cleaning your grout. Vinegar is where it's at.

Calling All Cheapskates! or, We have a new format

2009-02-26T14:35:00.006-05:00

As I haven't posted lately...well since December actually... I figured I'd give things a bit of a re-vamp. In addition to chronicling my dailies, I'm also adding some hints, tips, and tricks that I've stumbled upon in re: saving $$$$.

I wasn't always a cheapskate, mind you. Hubby and I lived things up quite a bit prior to having the little man. Unfortunately, between the bottom falling out for about a year in hubby's business and the expenses of having a baby, we fell on some hard times financially. We're back on track now, but that's due to lots of praying and being extremely frugal with our money.

I've become an expert at crochet, which has allowed me to save literally hundreds on gifts for special occasions over the past two years; it also helps cut out stress, as I crochet all year round and am done by late October, removing the last minute shopping rush. I have also spent countless hours scouring websites like HillbillyHousewife.com and LivingOnADime.com, finding cheap recipes, hints on freezer cooking, cheaper and safer cleaning supplies (vinegar and baking soda are the best!!), and shopping tips. I've also started shopping almost exclusively at Wal*Mart; where I have the double bonus of saving tons of money and irritating hippies at the same time.

All of this knowledge, dear reader, I will be departing upon you, in addition to my other ramblings. Excitement for all!

Also, I'm going to be blogging on occasion on a beloved interest of mine: politics. If that's not your cup-o-tea, then feel free to skip out on those. But since I keep myself pretty well informed on issues of national consequence as well as issues of consequence to tight-wads, I figured I'd impart some of my knowledge to my dear readers on those topics as well.

Cheers!

Yaweh- The Faithful One

2008-12-02T15:42:00.006-05:00

As I was reading my Advent Devotional this morning, a particular passage spoke to me. The author says, speaking of the name Yaweh and the passage in Exodus 20 where the Lord reveals this name to Moses:

"I AM WHO I AM" What do these mysterious words mean? Was Moses as bewildered as we are by God's self-disclosure? OR did he realize that God was assuring them he would always be present to his people-Listening for their cries, answering their prayers, showing his power on their behalf, responding faithfully even when they acted faithlessly?

I stopped to ponder this for a moment and felt compelled to offer up prayer and praise for this wonderful revelation! This afternoon, I was reading The Anchoress' post on her podcast and apparently this same concept was impressed upon her as well.

The Lord is faithful. Think about that. That's a very powerful statement.

I must honestly admit that I am not very faithful to God. Oh, I try to be and I always start off doing really well and inevitably my efforts fizzle out somewhere along the way. My Christian walk has been fraught with a fair amount of backsliding and procrastinating on heavenly things that can be put off til tomorrow while I focus on the earthly worries of today-except that tomorrow provides yet more earthly worries and I find myself putting God off permanently.

No, I am not very faithful to God.

But he is always faithful to me- a mere human being. We are really very loathsome creatures, constantly choosing to put the flesh ahead of the spirit. Yet, He loves us and never leaves us.

Whenever I think of God's love for us, I think of my love for my son. In fact, the Bible tells us He is our Heavenly Father and that we are his created children- so the parent/child relationship is an appropriate analogy to a point.

But think about your own children; as much as I love my son and will always love him no matter what he becomes, will I always be faithful to him? Is there anything he may do or say that could cause me to abandon my support of him? They are very few, but there are some things that would cause me to be unfaithful to my child. If he were to fall into a life of crime, I could no longer support him. If he were to choose a sinful lifestyle, I could not support him. Some actions are extreme enough that I would probably cut off all ties to him.

I would never fail to love my child; but I may not always be there for him while I am alive depending on circumstances. And I know that when I pass on, I will no longer be there for him either.

Throughout the Bible, there is example after example of God's people being unfaithful to him. Yet he remains with them always.

Our Heavenly Father is ALWAYS here for us. He is ALWAYS with us, ALWAYS supports us, ALWAYS behind us. He loves us so much that there is absolutely nothing we can say or do that will cause him to leave us.

That's significant.

God is FAITHFUL.

Avent Begins

2008-12-01T00:21:00.000-05:00

I'm not Catholic but I happen to love the season of Advent. It is a season of longing and preparation for the coming of our Messiah; both past and future. Even though my particular Baptist church does not recognize Advent or its customs, I personally practice as many of the traditions as possible.

I can remember very distinctly when I stopped being excited about Christmas. As soon as I found out that good ole Santa was really good ole Mama, the Christmas season lost its luster. It became less about the "magic" and more about the me (ie, the things I wanted). Inevitably, Christmas became a big disappointment to be repeated year after year.

Since becoming an adult, I've longed to recapture the spirit of Christmas but I didn't know how; that is until I began observing Advent. I've found that spending this four-week season reflecting helps me to reclaim a significant chunk of those excited feelings and intense anticipation from my childhood Christmases.

As today is the first day of Advent, I would like to share some of the things we did for anyone who would like to participate in this season of joyous anticipation.

For the little man, we kicked off Advent by reading the Annunciation account in Luke, as well as coloring some pictures of Angels. We also "lit" our first "candle" on our Advent Wreath craft, found here.

Today I spent some time online reading this Advent devotional, which specifically targets the 4 Sundays and the lighting of the candles. I also read a lovely piece of personal reflection by The Anchoress.

I will also be reading daily from this book with my son, as well as following the directed activities. And my own personal tradition is to go through the book Immanuel: Praying the Names of God Through the Christmas Season. It is a wonderful guide to Bible study and reflection upon the first and future coming of our Lord during this wonderful season.

God Bless!

Back on Track

2008-10-13T16:22:00.001-04:00

Currently, I'm trying to lose some weight (and no, those aren't my feet on that scale). I'm down about 27 pounds so far but I have 35 left to lose before I reach my goal. One of my short-term goals was to lose a total of 40 lbs by the end of November. So far I'm on track to do that so long as I continue my routine.

I have a confession. I fell off the wagon last week BIG TIME; mostly because the little man has been sick and I haven't had much time to think about exercising or planning healthy meals. When your toddler is running a fever and has almost constant diarrhea, your own health goes right to the back burner.

But I'm not one to be beaten! The Bible says "The righteous also shall hold on his way, and he that hath clean hands shall be stronger and stronger." (Job 17:9) I know that I can do ALL things through Christ, so I'm gonna keep working at losing this weight and getting healthy and continue to look to the Lord to strengthen me and help me to stick it out.

If I can get it to work, I'm gonna post my weight loss ticker on this page so my readers (whoever you may be) can see how I'm progressing. Please pray for me in this endeavor.

P.S. The little man is much better today! Fever's gone and his stomach troubles have greatly diminished.

Home Blessing Day

2008-10-06T16:57:00.000-04:00

Monday is Home Blessing Day, or so says the Flylady. I spend most of the day on Mondays cleaning, cleaning, cleaning. The following is what I've accomplished today:

Dusted living and dining rooms
Vacuumed
Cleaned kitchen counter tops
Cleaned guest bathroom (sink, toilet and tub)
Wash all rugs

I've also gone grocery shopping, started dinner (pinto beans, brown rice, corn and home made cornbread...YUMMY!), packed and put away clothes that the little man can't fit into anymore, walked two miles, and started crocheting a table runner with a really cool variegated yarn in autumn colors.

As you can see, I've been a bit busy.

Basically I'm trying to catch up from this weekend. Little man and I went to visit my parents, which is always a blast! He has so much fun with his Marmie and PawPaw and I love getting to see him interact with them. It's so cute. The downside to these trips is because they live so far away (2.5 hour drive) it's an affair that literally takes up the entire weekend. Which, of course, puts me behind on my cleaning.

Tomorrow's agenda is as follows:

Vacuum little man's room
Mop floor in guest bathroom
Scrub tile (with machine)
Dust office
Little man's laundry

The cleaning never ends. I try my best to follow the Flylady's system. My mother-in-law was even kind enough to pick up the Flylady calendar for me as a gift last Christmas, which is really nice. It came with a pen and some neat stickers and has been a life saver.

Anyway I'm sure that I've bored you to death rambling on about my cleaning routine. I'm off to finish my beans.

Doggie Days

2008-10-02T18:52:00.001-04:00

When you have a toddler- especially one who is in the full-blown "terrible twos" phase- the rest of your life needs to be as simple as possible, or else you're liable to have a meltdown.

Lately my patience is continually tried by my dog, Ein. He's an 8-year old Pembroke Welsh Corgi. Don't get me wrong; I love him unconditionally and he's about the sweetest, most good natured dog I've ever known. But there are days when the barking, the walking, the shedding, the constant in and out of the kitchen (which is gated off for toddler protection), etc, gets to be a hassle.

Today has been an especially trying day. The little man and I are going to my parent's house for a visit this weekend. I've got some errands to run while I'm in town so I plan on getting an early start on the three hour trip tomorrow. I've attempted to spend most of today making sure my house is in order as well as packing for the trip. Attempted is the appropriate word because try as I may, I didn't quite succeed in my task.

Between constantly corralling my son away from household hazards (and there are ALWAYS hazards, no matter how much you "baby proof"), keeping him entertained, etc, and having to deal with my dog who apparently woke up this morning with an overwhelming need to be constantly touching or rubbing against me, I haven't managed to get too much done.

When hubby gets home, I'm hoping I can get him to watch the little man for a bit so I can get the bags packed, the kitchen and dishes in order (ie, washed and put away so hubby can put his dishes away instead of piling them in the sink), and the house vacuumed. All before 9pm, hopefully. I'm looking forward to watching Palin in the debate. That is, if I'm able to sit down long enough to do it!

The Bible says that the Lord will provide. I'm praying that he provides me some patience right about now.

Me, in a nutshell

2008-10-02T16:44:00.000-04:00

My name's Mandy P. First and foremost, I am a Christian. God is the number one priority in my life and I intend to keep it that way. I am also a wife to a wonderful husband and stay-at-home mother of a rambunctious toddler. The will of my God and the needs of my family are the most important things in my life.

I'm also a very conservative/traditional lady and I do my best, with the Lord's help, to live out my values every day. Some days life is easy. Some days it's a struggle.

I intend to use this blog to chronicle the goings-on in my daily life.